Contrary to what people mean, love does not idealise the other. The miracle that they say, “You may be this person who is slightly stupid, not the perfect body whatever, but still you are absolute for me.”
And true love, precisely does not have to idealise.
True love is not either eternal beauty or (the) vulgar everyday person.
True love is…You see eternal beauty in the everyday person.
- Slavoj Žižek
